http://cbsnews.com/earlyshow/enterta...marriage.shtml This is a problem that I've had with a lot of Americans for a while. Now there is a book coming out on the subject. What is this obsession about being married all about? People seem to place being married above actually being in love with somebody first. It's unbelievable to me how many women place the importance of how big their wedding ring is above the quality of man their marrying. It seems like anybody that's been in a relationship for more than a year puts tremendous pressure on themselves on taking that next step. Why not actually find that person you actually want to spend the rest of your life with, instead of settling for somebody you can tolerate for year. Way too many people let "society" push them into stupid decisions.