Ashley Seymour
Supporting Actor
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- Jun 29, 2000
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Stacie says
If the purpose of marriage is to provide stable environments for children, do you think that those who either can't or don't wish to have children should still have the right to marry?
I hate to quote statistics that can't be readily be backed up, but I'll givce this one because it supports the belief that I had from my late teens. Your chance of having a successful marriage, with reduced incidence of divorce goes up significantly if the couples are in the 26-30 age bracket. Maybe it's 27-31, but my point is that marriage outside of that age range is destined for a lot more turmoil. A married couple always has the potential to have children. Of course they could both be sterile by accident or design, but you start to nit pick by having the government trying to make up a bunch of exceptions to the rule. Gay marriage. The concept is silly, but the government interposes itself is a lot of other dubious behaviors. It doesn't bother me. It is likely to be such a small occurance that my chance of encountering a gay married couple is about as likely as me going down in an airplace crash. And if I did meet one, so what. The networks and tabloids like to cover this scenario, but I find it had to see how you debase such a widespread institution by such miniscule exceptions.
The Today Show had an author on this morning that discussed the high incidence of fatherless homes in the black community. He traced it to the time of slavery when couples were discouraged from marriage. The dehumanizing natue of slavery sowed the seeds of generations that followed who had a lower incidence of marriage than other cultures. I hadn't read the book and I certainly can see that it could stir up a heated discussion, but is there anyone who would argue that prisons are overrepresented by inmates who come from fatherless homes and abusive homes.