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- Josh Steinberg
I've been like that myself (fidgety and disinterested) when I was faced with seeing films that I disliked, such as The Revenant w/Leonardo DiCaprio. I couldn't stand a minute of that junkfest (it was a junkfest at least IMO), but I didn't know how else to be.
It's not even that I'm necessarily disinterested in a specific show or wouldn't be up for it another time. It usually plays more like this: she gets home from work a few hours before me, and watches a show or plays a game I'm not interested in. Then I get home from work and we immediately jump into watching a show or movie that's mutually agreeable. She's been waiting all day to see me, and vice versa. By the time that's over, I've now worked a full day in the office and spent a couple hours hanging out with her, and I just really wanna see what's gonna happen in the new Westworld episode or whatever since I've been waiting all day for that. She's already had her time to catch up on her hobbies and interests, and I haven't yet had that chance yet. And that's when I might want to split off and do something different. It's not a rejection of her next choice forever, just a desire to watch one of my selections next. Sometimes that means I say goodnight to her if she's heading to bed before me, other times she'll get caught up with something else while I do that and we'll reconvene in an hour.