Chuck C
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Once again, I turn to the greatest consortium of dating advisers to ever exist: The HTF
STORY:
disclaimer: I'm not gonna use her name in this since it's a public site!
I met a beautiful girl last Saturday (1/25) whom my friend Kasey's girlfriend rooms with in a dorm. She gave me her phone number, and I called her on Monday (1/27) to set up a date. She was excited and agreed to go out. Before the date (wed. 1/29) my friend Kasey briefed me of the situation and found out that this girl was real nervous as she had never been on a date before. Anyway, Wednesday's date went great. I picked her up, we went to dinner, I called ahead and the waiter was very non-intrusive, the dinner was very energetic, and I took her home. I walked her to the door, told her that I had a great time, she agreed that she had fun, I grasped her hand, and gave her the ol squeeze and say goodbye with a smile thing. It was pimp.
The next day, I consulted with Kasey for some feedback, and he found out thru his girlfriend that the girl I was with said the date was quote "awesome". I called her again on Friday and talked to her on IM. Then I found out the bad news. Turns out this girl is incredibly busy with joining a sorority, work, and volleyball practices.
LONG STORY SHORT.
She was unable to see me this weekend.
THE LATEST.
At first I thought she was blowing me off. So I flat out asked if she's interested in seeing me again. She said most definitely and apologized for making it seem like she was blowing me off. Then she hit me with it. She ran down her entire schedule...it's sick. Not even doctors could keep up with her schedule. She said it will cool off in like 4 weeks. I told her that I owe her another date and that I'd be around in 4 weeks. That's not to say that I won't talk to her until then. It's quite the opposite. It's just a matter of when will I get to spend and evening with her so that things can start to happen.
WHAT TO DO?
So I come to you guys. Should I wait? My instinct tells me to go on with life, meet girls, don't hold out, and have fun. But I also think that I should keep working for this relationship because good things come to those who wait. I really like this girl and I think she likes me back; there's just too much getting in the way right now. What do you guys think? Anyone ever been in a similar situation?
STORY:
disclaimer: I'm not gonna use her name in this since it's a public site!
I met a beautiful girl last Saturday (1/25) whom my friend Kasey's girlfriend rooms with in a dorm. She gave me her phone number, and I called her on Monday (1/27) to set up a date. She was excited and agreed to go out. Before the date (wed. 1/29) my friend Kasey briefed me of the situation and found out that this girl was real nervous as she had never been on a date before. Anyway, Wednesday's date went great. I picked her up, we went to dinner, I called ahead and the waiter was very non-intrusive, the dinner was very energetic, and I took her home. I walked her to the door, told her that I had a great time, she agreed that she had fun, I grasped her hand, and gave her the ol squeeze and say goodbye with a smile thing. It was pimp.
The next day, I consulted with Kasey for some feedback, and he found out thru his girlfriend that the girl I was with said the date was quote "awesome". I called her again on Friday and talked to her on IM. Then I found out the bad news. Turns out this girl is incredibly busy with joining a sorority, work, and volleyball practices.
LONG STORY SHORT.
She was unable to see me this weekend.
THE LATEST.
At first I thought she was blowing me off. So I flat out asked if she's interested in seeing me again. She said most definitely and apologized for making it seem like she was blowing me off. Then she hit me with it. She ran down her entire schedule...it's sick. Not even doctors could keep up with her schedule. She said it will cool off in like 4 weeks. I told her that I owe her another date and that I'd be around in 4 weeks. That's not to say that I won't talk to her until then. It's quite the opposite. It's just a matter of when will I get to spend and evening with her so that things can start to happen.
WHAT TO DO?
So I come to you guys. Should I wait? My instinct tells me to go on with life, meet girls, don't hold out, and have fun. But I also think that I should keep working for this relationship because good things come to those who wait. I really like this girl and I think she likes me back; there's just too much getting in the way right now. What do you guys think? Anyone ever been in a similar situation?