That's how it worked for me. When I was a kid, the "A party? At my house? Excuuuuuse me!" lady was just a lady that didn't like that there was a party going on at her house. As an adult, I'm not going to pretend that it isn't a stereotype or act like I can't understand how people could be offended by it but at the same time, I don't think that there's any value in hiding it from public view either.