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I think Bryan and I had previously talked about this, might have been more in reference to video game collecting but I think the point stands - there are hobbyists and generalists in this world and I think the generalists have a hard time understanding why the hobbyists do what they do. And then there are the hobbyists who understand their own hobby but don’t see how anyone could derive pleasure from any other kind of hobby. Tough as it is (and it took me years to get this), you just have to tune those people out. If you have a hobby and it brings you joy and gives you an activity to fill your days with and isn’t causing harm to you or anyone else, who cares what other people think? I don’t understand why my mom and stepdad have a plethora of bicycles but who cares what I think? They probably don’t get why I don’t even have one.
I think because most people have a more casual relationship with the media they consume, they genuinely don’t get that other people get something deeper from it. And since movies or discs are disposable, one time use only trifles to them, they just don’t understand other people having different perceptions about it.
And then some people are just jerks.
I think because most people have a more casual relationship with the media they consume, they genuinely don’t get that other people get something deeper from it. And since movies or discs are disposable, one time use only trifles to them, they just don’t understand other people having different perceptions about it.
And then some people are just jerks.