I am looking for a great 5.1 surround setup for my apartment (will be in one for a couple more years). The room is approx. 17' x 21'. Display will be on a 17' wall. One of the 21' "walls" is 1/2 open into the kitchen/dining rooms. As I am sure you all know, there is concern about "entertaining" the neighbors! What I am looking for is a speaker system that will keep its great sound and bass extension at lower volumes. Great sound only at reference levels plus will be of virtually no use to me. The listening will be divided between music and movies equally. The speakers need to be relatively small. It definitely needs to be a bookshelf/sub or sat/sub system. I know I will probably not get strong 20hz with this system, but want as much as I can get! I have a $2500-$3000 budget for the speakers and sub. So, what do you think? Are there any combinations out there that fit my needs?