Leila Dougan
Screenwriter
- Joined
- Mar 27, 2002
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My mother kept her maiden name and it was never really a problem for me (had my father's name). Occasionally someone would think she was my step-mother but in the end, nobody really thought anything of the name differences. After all, there's plenty of married couples with different last names, especially those that were the product of the 70s.
Anyway, I hate that hyphen BS. When I got married, I didn't know if I was going to keep my maiden name or change it to my husband's, but I knew for damn sure I wasn't going to do the hyphenated thing. After all, it only *really* works when both people change their name and my husband wouldn't even discuss it. Not that that's a bad thing. . .after all I wouldn't discuss it either
In the end, I changed my name and it's been alright. It's taken me this long (2 years) to finally get used to it. Now my maiden name looks wrong to me which, incidentally, is still my username here. My husband is an HTF member as well, but I'll leave it up to you guys to figure out who.
Anyway, I hate that hyphen BS. When I got married, I didn't know if I was going to keep my maiden name or change it to my husband's, but I knew for damn sure I wasn't going to do the hyphenated thing. After all, it only *really* works when both people change their name and my husband wouldn't even discuss it. Not that that's a bad thing. . .after all I wouldn't discuss it either
In the end, I changed my name and it's been alright. It's taken me this long (2 years) to finally get used to it. Now my maiden name looks wrong to me which, incidentally, is still my username here. My husband is an HTF member as well, but I'll leave it up to you guys to figure out who.