First, I would like to say hi to all of you on this forum and to introduce myself on here since this is my first post in this section of HTF/AHL! Well it has to do with 2 of my friends that I have known for a good 6 or 7 yrs. I will label them as friend A and B. I've known friend A longer than friend B by about 2 yrs. Both have lived in the same neighborhood as me and I went to high school with both of them. Both of these friends of mine as of lately have become real close with each other like best friends in the past yr. where as before ( ex. during high school) they were not. Me and friend A would go out and chill almost every weekend but during the summer of 02 when friend B came down home from college, I began to notice that they have stopped including me whenever they would go out and chill. I did let them know about this and that I was kinda upset that they were, I guess you could say "dissing" me. So after talking with them about this they started to include me whenever we would go out and do things. Although they were including me I felt like at times I was kinda being left out in their conversations. Fast forwarding to now, Friend B has come home for the holidays and it seems that they are back to their old ways again of not including me, especially friend A, who I have known the longest. It's seems like he drops me like a bad habit whenever friend B is around. So I was wondering why is it that they are doing this? I wouldn't be letting this bother me so much but I don't have many other friends. Is it because I am not as outspoken as they are (I'm more laid back)? I know that as soon as friend B leaves's again for college friend A is going to want to chill with me again but I really rather not because I'm a little upset that he seems to keep dissing me whenever friend B is around. So should I just tell them both that it's time to go on with our lives and go on our own different paths? Or should I try to talk with them both about this again to resolve our friendships? Like I said I already spoken with them about this during the summer but I doubt that talking to them again would do any good since it seems they're back to square one. For those that are wondering, They are not gay and neither am I! lol they both have girlfriends, although I currently do not. Thank you guys for taking the time for reading my post dealing with this current situation and also for any input you might have/personal dealings with! If there's something in my post that I'm not to clear about please let me know and I'll edit it.