I have 2 issues that bother me w/ XBL while playing ESPN Football. 1) At the finish of every game when it asks if you'd like to add your opponent as a friend, everything freezes and has to be restarted. I find this very annoying. Is anyone else having this problem? 2) Does anyone play w/ the performance EQ enabled? Who decides whether to do so? Must this be mutually agreed upon at the start of the game? Thanks in advance for your help.