(SPOILERS AHEAD, YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED) I saw the movie and enjoyed it. But, I have 2 questions that maybe someone can answer. 1-Why was the husband allowed to visit? I assume he was in a similar pergatory, but for soldiers. 2-Why was the wife & kids forced to stay there? I assumed it was because she killed the kids and herself and this was her punishment. But, why would the kids be made to suffer. Any info would be appreciated.