Increasingly in today's e-mail environment, I am sending and receiving e-mails to people who I have never met or seen, nor spoken to. All I have is their name, and that doesn't always give me enough to go by, especially for names that are not vanilla American names. Asian names in particular can be baffling. This is not meant to be a knock against Asians, I am just admitting ignorance here. Often I will not know whether to refer to a person as a "he" or a "she" when forwarding the e-mail to another party. For example, is the name "Ninh-Kieu" male or female? Is there a site where I can enter a non-American first name, and would it tell me whether that was typically a male or female name?