atfree
Senior HTF Member
Just a rant post…
We have a blended family with 4 kids, ages 13 (son, soon to be 14), 14 (daughter, soon to be 15), 18 (son, senior in HS), and 22 (son, senior in college, lives at home). I was married for 19 years before losing my wife to an aneurysm in February of 2007. My wife was married for 17 years before her husband cheated and they divorced. We met in May of 2008, and were married in December of 2008, and will be celebrating our 6th anniversary this Saturday.
We are leaving Thursday on our annual anniversary getaway to a cabin in the mountains of Tennessee. And boy do we need it bad!!!
Now, our blended family has been nothing short of amazing. Our kids (mine are the 14 year old girl and 22 year old boy) have always gotten along amazingly and we have ZERO step-family drama. My wife and I are crazy about each other and are each others best friend. But, the sheer volume of activities, laundry, and just general exhaustion generated by having 4 kids is overwhelming at times.
My wife and I both work full-time jobs, and our kids are very active. Our youngest son plays football from August till October, then he is on the wrestling team from November through February. Our daughter was accepted into a college entry program this year (at 14!) where she goes to our local state college in the morning for freshman-level college classes (for which she gets dual HS credits), and then goes to her HS after lunch. Luckily, the school provides transportation between the college and HS. By the time she graduates HS, she will have completed at least 2 years of college. She is one of only 30 kids in our metro area that was accepted into the program. This is the 10th year of the program, and so far 100% of the graduates have received full scholarships after graduation to colleges such as Stanford, UCLA, and Duke (she wants to attend UCLA). However, the college program requires a commitment to several community activities during the semester which we have to ensure she attends. Our 18-year old son is on the HS basketball team and is getting ready to join the Air Force Reserves in January, will go to basic next summer in Texas, then will return and start college in the Fall (as a reservist, they will pay for a significant portion of his college education, in return for one weekend a month and one month each summer for 6 years). His goal is to be in Air Force Intelligence/Security, and ultimately join the FBI or DEA after college. Our oldest son is a senior in college, majoring in Graphic Design, and will graduate in May of next year.
December has brought about the perfect storm of activities. We have 2 wrestling matches each week to attend (one during the week, then one ALL-DAY tournament on Saturdays), 2 basketball games during the week, my daughters birthday is the 20th, and my oldest son is moving to an apartment on January 2nd. Add in Christmas, our anniversary trip to TN, our jobs, running a household, etc, and we are seemingly on the go endlessly. My wife looked at the calendar after Thanksgiving and we have 3 nights during December where we don’t have something going on.
To quote Lili von Shtupp in Blazing Saddles…..I’m tired! But blessed
We have a blended family with 4 kids, ages 13 (son, soon to be 14), 14 (daughter, soon to be 15), 18 (son, senior in HS), and 22 (son, senior in college, lives at home). I was married for 19 years before losing my wife to an aneurysm in February of 2007. My wife was married for 17 years before her husband cheated and they divorced. We met in May of 2008, and were married in December of 2008, and will be celebrating our 6th anniversary this Saturday.
We are leaving Thursday on our annual anniversary getaway to a cabin in the mountains of Tennessee. And boy do we need it bad!!!
Now, our blended family has been nothing short of amazing. Our kids (mine are the 14 year old girl and 22 year old boy) have always gotten along amazingly and we have ZERO step-family drama. My wife and I are crazy about each other and are each others best friend. But, the sheer volume of activities, laundry, and just general exhaustion generated by having 4 kids is overwhelming at times.
My wife and I both work full-time jobs, and our kids are very active. Our youngest son plays football from August till October, then he is on the wrestling team from November through February. Our daughter was accepted into a college entry program this year (at 14!) where she goes to our local state college in the morning for freshman-level college classes (for which she gets dual HS credits), and then goes to her HS after lunch. Luckily, the school provides transportation between the college and HS. By the time she graduates HS, she will have completed at least 2 years of college. She is one of only 30 kids in our metro area that was accepted into the program. This is the 10th year of the program, and so far 100% of the graduates have received full scholarships after graduation to colleges such as Stanford, UCLA, and Duke (she wants to attend UCLA). However, the college program requires a commitment to several community activities during the semester which we have to ensure she attends. Our 18-year old son is on the HS basketball team and is getting ready to join the Air Force Reserves in January, will go to basic next summer in Texas, then will return and start college in the Fall (as a reservist, they will pay for a significant portion of his college education, in return for one weekend a month and one month each summer for 6 years). His goal is to be in Air Force Intelligence/Security, and ultimately join the FBI or DEA after college. Our oldest son is a senior in college, majoring in Graphic Design, and will graduate in May of next year.
December has brought about the perfect storm of activities. We have 2 wrestling matches each week to attend (one during the week, then one ALL-DAY tournament on Saturdays), 2 basketball games during the week, my daughters birthday is the 20th, and my oldest son is moving to an apartment on January 2nd. Add in Christmas, our anniversary trip to TN, our jobs, running a household, etc, and we are seemingly on the go endlessly. My wife looked at the calendar after Thanksgiving and we have 3 nights during December where we don’t have something going on.
To quote Lili von Shtupp in Blazing Saddles…..I’m tired! But blessed