'Meanest mom on planet' sells son's car

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  1. Paul Padilla

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    'Meanest mom on planet' sells son's car - CNN.com

    Thumbs up for not tolerating the behavior and taking decisive action. There aren't nearly enough consequences for kids by and large.

    Thumbs waaaay down for the newspaper ad. Shaming and humiliation are horrible teaching tools. I guess she thought that a pillory might be overdoing it a bit.
     
  2. Todd H

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    Nice. Good to see holding a child accountable for his actions making a comeback.
     
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    If he was drinking and driving, and there's nothing to indicate he was, that would be one thing. But he's 19 years old for god's sake, what a bitch.
     
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    What, exactly, do you call a bottle of booze under the front seat?

    That's circumstantial evidence, at the very least.
     
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    What about the cans in the car? It could have been someone else's but if he was sober and too dumb to pull the empty cans out of his car, he deserves to get busted by his mom for stupidity. In the end, he's getting off light because if he had been pulled over AND sober, he'd still lose his driver's license for having liquor under age. And if he was drunk, he would have gotten a DUI under age. Either way, it's alot better to have your mommy sell your car then get nailed by the cops in either situation.

    However, I gotta go with Paul, it's good that she nailed him but it's also way overboard to take out an ad in the newspaper.
     
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    It doesn't say anything about "cans in the car". It just says there was alcohol under the seat. As long as its not an open container, again nothing indicates it was, then its both perfectly legal and understandable considering he has a mom who'd just as soon sell his car if she found out.

    Obviously we don't know everything, if theres actual evidence that says he was using alcohol irresponsibly then that's one thing, if there isn't then she's a total bitch.
     
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    OK, he had alcohol under the seat. To me, it seems safe to assume that he had been drinking but, in all fairness, it doesn't say that. Whether it was open or not, he's not legal drinking age and should have no alcohol whether it's open or not. And like I said, he got off lucky compared to the legal problems if the police caught him.

    EDIT: I will agree with you that she's a total bitch for taking out the newspaper ad though. [​IMG]
     
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    I'd say she's totally justified in both selling the car, and the newspaper ad.

    Don't forget- there was an agreement between the 2- no alcohol, and to keep it locked. He obviously fell down on the first one, and perhaps even the second from the fact that she found it.

    If the alcohol wasn't his he should be responsible enough to do a sweep after getting home. (oh, and lock the car)

    As far as her being a bitch because of the ad, two things: 1) if he isn't responsible enough to earn the money to buy his own car (he's obviously living at home, so expenses must be low) he needs to live with the terms, and the consequences. 2) The little bit of humiliation he has to suffer because of this is much less than the humiliation (hopefully) and cost involved if caught with alcohol by authorities.

    She's done her son a big service, overall, and should be applauded for it.
     
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    I think we need both sides of the story in order to make an accurate judgement:

    (1) if son had been drinking, then I entirely concur with the mother's actions. First, because he'd been told the rules, and second, because I have yet to hear any sane argument in favour of DUI.

    (2) But before taking such a drastic step, I'd want to be certain that the son really had been DUI. Having booze in the car is not really sufficient proof. Yes, it's circumstantial, but it isn't unequivocal. And if the son is drinking and (separately) driving when sober, then that is another matter entirely. That needs a mature discussion, not punishment. Banning alcohol under all circumstances (unless for religious reasons) is simply making it forbidden fruit and all the more tempting.

    (3) And before punishing the son so harshly, I think the mother should ask herself how she's managed to raise a son who did something that dumb.
     
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    I think 10 years from now he'll appreciate what his mom did for him.
     
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    The drinking age in the United States is 21. The boy is 19. It was already banned by society.
     
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    The ad isn't denigrating the son at all!! All of the insults are self-deprication by the Mom.
     
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    So will everybody else on the road within his driving area.
     
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    Probably the most important point.
     
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    Point 1: It's her car, not his - she can do what she wants with it.

    Point 2: He broke the verbal contract, his alcohol or not. (And I'm inclined to think it was his. I mean, how many of us have friends that buy things just to leave them in our car? "Yeah, I just spent good money on this liqueur, so I'm just gonna shove it under your seat, mm'kay?" The kid's defense that it's a friend's booze ranks up there with the "these aren't my pants" quote from that famous COPS episode.

    Point 3: The ad only talks about her finding of the alcohol, and doesn't even state who she thought it belonged to in a witty way. Clever IMO.

    Living in her house means living by her rules. If he doesn't like it, he's old enough to move out, and then he can do whatever he likes.

    Oh, I don't know about that. I suspect we've all done something at one time or another that directly contradicts what we were taught by our parents. I know I've done things that would make my parents die of shame if they ever found out, things that they never, never taught me. There comes a point when your children are their own people, making their own decisions (and mistakes) for themselves.
     
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    It isn't self deprecating...it's sarcasm in the implied demeanor of the son. It specifically cites the alcohol being discovered as the reason and broadcasts it to the entire world.

    I wasn't entirely joking when I referenced a pillory. Pillories were used to bind a person forcing them to endure public ridicule. She chose to broadcast her sons error in judgement (regardless if he actually drank or if the alcohol was really his) to the world and use humiliation as a form of punishment. He should forfeit the car, not his dignity.
     
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    Would you make the same claim about any other newspaper article that had derogatory content toward an individual? Does that fact that it's an ad, not an article, diminish the mom's 1st Amendment rights? Isn't stating facts as they know them to be, what media outlets do on an ongoing and regular basis?

    It's not a punishment, it's life. The message for the son is: Don't do anything that you wouldn't want printed on the front page.
     
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    Exactly right. Kid needs to grow up.
     
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    With alcohol related accidents resulting in hundreds if not thousands of deaths every year, I think the mother should be praised. She not only wants her son to live a long life, she wants to share what she's done with others. Perhaps in the hope they will do the same. I have four highschools in my area and every once in awhile they put a totalled car in which a student or students have died due to DUI in front of the school as an example. So he's humiliated, big damn deal. At least he's alive and not in jail. Not to mention the other lives that could have been potentially saved here. If she's a bitch, it's in the best possible way.
     
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    This part bothers me more than anything, not so much because it's "mean" but that it's petty. She made her point already - why rub it in (or make it seem you're just into the attention it's stirred up)?
     

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