Leila is the one making the most sense here. I truly believe her non-shallow approach to what she finds attractive in a man is the norm. Too many guys think they have to look/walk/talk and act like those guys slick beer commercials in order to meet women. In fact, I'll bet it's the guys not...
I think having to pre-meditate the approach is lame. As others have said, confidence is the ONLY "technique" you need. f**k the muscles, dogs, kites, one-liners..... Confidence is what makes you interesting, radiant, and approachable. Be yourself and maybe they'll approach you! If they're not...