To be clear, I'm not speculating that she is a man, with all attendant plumbing. Just observing that they have often filmed her so as to have a masculine bearing [broad shoulders, strong jawline], and a few times to actually mimic the body language of The Usher. Go back and look at the shot of...
I dunno, the actress who plays Sophie is very androgynous, something about the jawline. And it's seemed that there's been a conscious effort to give her a powerful bearing, the scene where she got up from under the tree as the Carnivale moved on without her, partly her stance, partly the...
It seemed pretty clear to me that the guy was just offering Ben a glance at standard female goods [on a disabled girl] to entice him to pay for a roll in the hay. "You can do it in the truck bed." "I assure you, she's tight."