I loved band (but was more a choir nerd) and liked marching well enough but it'd have been much better if we'd not had to attend football games or march in parades. Marching competitions were fun but we didn't do those often. Our fb team did very well one year and made it to the playoffs. We had to march on Thanksgiving day - at a town 4 hours away - not an overnight trip - cold and snowy. It totally sucked.
Feel ya. I played oboe during the regular season and was actually good enough to be offered a full ride college scholarship. I did a lot of those ancillary performances too. For the most part, I loved it. It was attention/recognition and at a young age! Ultimately I chose the Navy and don't regret it. I shot up so much ordinance for free, and then there was the [also free] travel. Good times.
Still, in my day at least, the band worked at least as hard as the football team and that did "suck" at times.