andrew markworthy
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Another Brit-American difference. You would never find well-brought up Brits discussing how much they earn. Height of bad form, old boy, don't you know. The reason isn't primarily reluctance to boast (though that's part of it - the legendary Brit reserve) but a fear that by talking about salaries you may embarrass someone into admitting that they earn less than you supposed.
I should perhaps add that I'm not defending the Brit obsession with class - I find it tedious and oppressive. I judge people by what they say and do, not whether they've got the 'right' job or accent (remember that accent is a major class identifier in the UK, far more than in the USA). However, the trouble is that we all have a tendency to gravitate towards people with similar behaviour and attitudes, and in somewhere as stratified as the UK that almost inevitably means that most of my friends are middle class.