Steve>Smoker
Grip
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- Jul 20, 2003
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Same here. It's just incredible to me that people want to jump from one relationship to the next, often from bad to worse and back to bad again, simply because they have never learned self-reliance or are afraid to be alone.OK .. Recovering alone in the long run makes you alot stronger, BUT it takes a long, long time.
Finding a new partner you can talk to makes it quicker and less painful, as long as that person understands your situation.
Choose your path.
I can sympathise with those that leap from relationship to relationship, trying to find The One that will make them happy.
They really do need to sort themselves out inside and be sure what they are looking for before they inflict themsleves on someone else.
I agree happiness comes from inside, not other people.
BUT being part of a relationship should make life better than being alone.
A good example is the quote:
"The product should be more than the sum of both parts"
Being a couple should be MORE than what each individual could enjoy apart.
Its difficult to explain I spose :frowning:
As for drugs - sure if you need them, go for it.
But theyre only a crutch and another obstacle to overcome when its time to come off them.
if you can cope without them, I say : DO SO!
God knows I've been through enough in my time for 3 people and still kept off the happy pills.....