I have ordered a Toshiba 42h81 widescreen TV. An issue has come up and since it is not too late to cancel my order, I need some advice. I read that the 540p upconversion is a problem and that it softens the images on the screen. Can anyone with these sets tell me what you think? Also will a progressive scan DVD player alleviate this problem? I was told to get a Panasonic RP56, is this a good DVD player? Also, I am a little concerned about this the size? To people with the 42h81 does the TV look bigger when it is in your viewing area? Lastly, does anyone here in Toronto know where I can see a 42h81 fully calibrated on display so I can get a better idea of what it looks like? The storeroom displays look awful.