I like milk, but it has to be cold, and can’t have any smell whatsoever. Decades ago, I got a mouthful of rancid milk- not much worse on the planet than that, so my unbreakable habit is I will ALWAYS take a whiff of the milk I’m about to consume. Even if I drank from a carton 5 minutes ago, I’ll smell it to make sure.I love coffee and a good dinner is not complete without a strong cup of coffee to top it off. However, your aversion to it is personal and we all find something gross that other people love. Mine is milk which I find the most disgusting piece of fluid on the planet. Even as a kid I refused to eat my Cheerios or corn flakes with that white muck on it. I ate the cereal dry or with chocolate milk (still disgusting but the flavor is disguised) instead. Curiously I LOVE cheese and ice cream, both dairy products and I always put a little bit of cream in my coffee, just enough to give it some color (but NEVER sugar).