Today and yesterday I've experienced some utterly strange things, and I would like to share them and maybe get your opinion on the topic. First the backstory, it's long and boring, but remember I didn't force you to read it! Ok, so I met this girl (it always start like that, doesn't it?) on the 26th of december. She live quite far away from me (app. 1 hour by bus and 2 hours by train) in a city called Fredericia. How I met her doesn't matter. I thought she was nice & funny, and we agreed to meet again. So the weekend 14 days ago I travelled an even longer distance to see her at her friend's boyfriend's place! We had a very nice weekend, and ultimately the 2nd night we kissed a bit you know... To sum up, the participants in this story are: Me: Artur (23) The girl: Lizzy (18) Her friend: Betina (18) A stranger: Jane (later) PS: Message = SMS So everything was hanky-panky (or hunky dory, whatever) until about a week ago, when Lizzy suddenly didn't answer any of my calls or messages. I contacted her friend Betina, and she told me Lizzy didn't want to talk to me anymore. Huh? Not a word from her. No explanation. Nothing. So this is where I did the cool thing! I wrote Lizzy a final message with the words: Call me when you grow up! I mean, if she didn't want to see me again, then she could just say so. To be honest, this is infantile behavior and a waste of my time, and I let her knew that! So..... what happened yesterday? I got the strangest message of my life. It said: Hello Artur. Now I've grown up. Do you love me? Ok, but what is even stranger is, the message came from a number I didn't recognize... However, my first thought was, of course: This is a message from Lizzy. Maybe she just needed some time to think about things, got a new phone number, and maybe things will work out now. But no.... As I soon found out, the number belongs to a girl named Jane, who live 20 km from Fredericia and doesn't know Lizzy or anyone named Artur for that matter. She seems to have as little clue about what's going on as I do. I also contacted Betina, and she told me that Lizzy still didn't want to talk to me, that she hadn't send me any messages, and that she definitely hadn't grown up! So what's going on? I've talked to Betina before, and she is very sincere and a nice person, I wouldn't think she could lie to me without me noticing. Jane also seems very sincere, I even called her to make sure she didn't know anyone named Artur or Lizzy or anything... Ok, so the last thing to this story is, that I actually sent Lizzy a message saying that I love her humor and her smile. I still don't have a clue to what this is all about though. I find it very hard to believe it's a conspiracy between the 3 of them, I mean why would Betina and Jane outright lie to me just because Lizzy is acting strange? And if it is a conspiracy, what do they get out of it? So far only that I've told Lizzy I love her humor, but she knew that already... I'm truly puzzled... Is Lizzy insane? Am I insane? Who is insane? Oh, and just so you know it, I don't feel bad about this at all, it takes more than that! I'm just not sure what the world is trying to tell me right now... Take care, comments appreciated!