Ted Lee
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They are acting on their emotion instead of logically thinking out the situation....Obviously neither parent is wearing the pants in the family.
i don't remember mike - did you state whether your have children or not?
parents aren't immune to emotion when it comes to their kids. i have twin 8 year olds that are my girlfriend's from a previous marriage but i still think of them as my own. i still worry about what they're going through and how other kids will interact with them. and i'm not even thier "real" dad. i also have a pretty close connection with my newphews who are also very young.
i've always suspected if i ever had my "own" child, those emotions would only be enhanced even further.
i'm not saying what the parents are doing is right. i do agree that it's probably a bad example to set for the kid. but i think i may know where they're coming from. of course, i can't be sure.
ultimately who knows...maybe they're viewing this as a money-making opportunity.
on the topic of bullying, i would like to think that you can usurp a bully with non-violent tactics...but that's a rare thing. i can't remember ever seeing a bully embarassed enough to stop. but a good thump....