AllanN
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- Mar 15, 2002
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I’m curious how many members are stay at home Mom/Dad or there spouse or significant other stays at home? My curiosity peaked me after reading this thread another thread, but did not want to bring up a general discussion there.
I know ill want to work because that is just in my personality. My only request of my future wife is that she stays home with our kids before they are school age so long as my income can support us. Before we have kids or after they are in school she can do whatever she wants. If she has a job then we can split the chores accordingly. We would split bills, investment, and recreation expenses up between us proportionally trying to make sure our core expenses can be paid by either of us individually. If she wants to stay home then I would expect her to do a larger share of household chores and cooking instead of sitting around or going out all day. I would still contribute a significant amount of effort in helping her so we can both have our own personal time and so we can spend time together.
Does your spouse or significant other stay at home? Take care of the kinds? Work?
Please try and keep religious or political views from this thread. I’m looking for personal opinions. If your opinions are based on religious or political views that is fine but keep it out of this thread.
I know ill want to work because that is just in my personality. My only request of my future wife is that she stays home with our kids before they are school age so long as my income can support us. Before we have kids or after they are in school she can do whatever she wants. If she has a job then we can split the chores accordingly. We would split bills, investment, and recreation expenses up between us proportionally trying to make sure our core expenses can be paid by either of us individually. If she wants to stay home then I would expect her to do a larger share of household chores and cooking instead of sitting around or going out all day. I would still contribute a significant amount of effort in helping her so we can both have our own personal time and so we can spend time together.
Does your spouse or significant other stay at home? Take care of the kinds? Work?
Please try and keep religious or political views from this thread. I’m looking for personal opinions. If your opinions are based on religious or political views that is fine but keep it out of this thread.