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Talk to any married guy in my company (including me) of course when confronted by our wives we would all deny saying such things.
Jeff
Jeff
Four years ago I had a new relationship (girl I knew for awhile) go back to her ex. She actually had the nerve to tell me over the phone "if things change I'll let you know." That made me laugh so damn hard! I told her things dont work that way and hung up. Never heard from her again.THAT is how to handle it. Always remember, it is their loss, not yours. People make bad decisions all the time, don't let it get to you. My saying when I was single was "They ALL want me, some just don't know it yet".
You all have a respectable attitude and I an honored to read the stories and advice you share.
Only one thing....
NOBODY SAID CONGRATULATIONS TO HOLADEM!!
CONGRATS DUDE!!!!!
Not that anyone cares, but here is my perspective on dateing and marriage:
Somewhere around the age of 16 young men are expected to date. We all start off poorly and really suck at it. For whatever reasons we persist and eventually start getting better at it. By 21 we are starting to enjoy it, and by 25 we've mastered the game. We score more often than we strike out, and even when we don't score we still had fun playing.
Then one day you master the ULTIMATE challenge and get the most fantastic girl ever to agree to marry you!!!
Then you have to stop playing the dating game. You start a whole NEW game; the marriage game. Just as before, you start of poorly and really suck at it.
Some guys go back to the dating game, some guys surrender completely. For whatever reasons others persist - and eventually it to becomes a most rewarding experience.
Good luck Holadem!
btw - you'd better start a thread and tell us all about it.. (well, maybe not ALL)
Every time I attend a "function", I say the same thing: "I would have brought my girlfriend, but I don't know who she is"
There's my problem. I'm reluctant to go to social functions alone. If they are somewhat formal, like a wedding or my annual office x-mas party, I will NOT attend alone. I have, however, gone to some social gatherings by myself.
That's a good line... I'll use it if I ever have the balls to go alone. :b
Mike D.
That's a good line... I'll use it if I ever have the balls to go alone.The reason why I like it is because it gets it out of the way, so you don't have to explain yourself as to why you're alone and it also will give you the allusion of self-confidence...i.e. A man that can make fun of himself MUST be confident.
One thing I noticed it your post Evan, you didn't mention the word love anywhere. I take it you just don't like to be alone for too long a period.Not true, I have no problems being solo at all. In fact, I was solo for most of my 20's (I'm 31 now). But, I would like to meet someone special soon (after being a moron and screwing up a good thing, like I mentioned earlier). And, I did not mention the word love just for brevity's sake, but trust me, I have been in love before...twice the girls broke my heart, the third time was what I mentioned in post #1...an absolute mistake on my part, but it's too complicated to go into detail here on this forum as to why that was.
ended up with a naked woman next to me at the end of two of themAnd you want sympathy from us????
At first I was sympathetic toward you, but now I think it's turning into jealousy.
At first I was sympathetic toward you, but now I think it's turning into jealousy.Don't be jealous Mark...both of those occasions happened 4 years ago. But there are worse things in life than going solo to a wedding.
But there are worse things in life than going solo to a weddingYeah, being the poor schlub who's getting married.
Ummm, Eric. . . did you read the 2nd sentence of Holadem's post (#14)?DOH!!!!!!! :b
Gonna have to get a refund on those reading comprehension classes I took at the JC.