how mad would you be? my mom is sort of like a stalker, I chat with her once a month or something, about the most I can tolerate (it really is a long, long story and I won't get into it here) so she's been trying to get ahold of me by phone and hasnt' for little while, since I go to school full time and work and have a life etc.. I figure that's understandable, not to mention she tends to call at 8 or 9am on saturday or sunday, which RRRRRRRRREALLY pisses me off beyond words. Anywho I'm getting off track.. so she calls tonight while I'm out and leaves this msg on my machine "Hi. we're coming to visit next week" I'm so mad right now I can barely type at this, for christ's sake I'm 24, live on my own, pay for college on my own and don't see a dime from them for anything. since when does she have the right to just announce when she's barging in with total disregard for my space? she has done this before, I came home from work one night and surprise, looks who's sitting outside my door. Another time she knocked on my door after midnight and was mad that I wouldn't take the next day off of work to spend it with her (of all fridays THAT friday 2 of the 4 people in the company I worked for was gone, I couldn't leave ONE guy to do it all!) it's not like she lives across town, they're about 1000 miles away.