Well my department at work is getting LAID OFF and they have asked if anyone wants to relocate to Michigan. I've been raised practically all my life in California and love it here, but housing and cost is so expensive. My wife likes the idea of moving to somewhere we can buy our home outright and still be able to buy a new car. She can stay home and watch the kids one 2 years old and another coming in January of 2004. But the thing is i love the Bay Area and all my family and hers is in California, I don't have much time to decide as management needs to fill the position ASAP. Anybody ever been in this situation? Any advice out there? I'm just kinda torn.