Jeremiah
Screenwriter
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I didn't know a man is supossed to give his new fiance a gift, let alone the man getting one from the lady. Boy, I know next to nothing about relationships.
I read somewhere that it was DeBeers who coined the phrase "A diamond is forever" in the 50s. Since then, North Americans adopted the idea that a girl is "supposed" to receive a diamond engagement ring.Right. No one ever gave an engagement ring before the 1950s. This is practically a brand-new tradition, and only in North America.
Do you really think this is the case?
You're right about DeBeers coming up with the advertising slogan, although I'm not sure when they did. (Certainly it was well-known by the mid-50s, since Ian Flemming used a variation of it for his novel Diamonds are Forever.)
Regards,
Joe
The year of the advertising campaign was 1939. That's right, the tradition of diamonds as THE engagement ring...as the only correct option, started slightly over 60 years ago and was the main result of an advertising campaignhere .
It said diamonds had been used, but mainly by the rich. Then in the early 1900's diamond sales were dropping so DeBeers came up with the campaign.
I had a buddy whose girlfriend was bugging him about getting married.
They looked at rings and all.
He said he would get her a ring if she would get him a set of Ping i3s.
He got em, she got itThat's the way to do it.
Girl gets a ring(along with a husband) and the guy gets a wife but nothing else?
It doesn't seem fair does it?
Seems like the girl should buy him something, but I wouldn't expect it, nor would I ask for it.
Girl gets a ring (along with a husband) and the guy gets a wife but nothing else?
It doesn't seem fair does it?New to this planet, are you?
Regards,
Joe
Right. No one ever gave an engagement ring before the 1950s. This is practically a brand-new tradition, and only in North America.hmmm, it seems the cultural Pax Americana has really spread far and wide then, I certainly gave my wife a diamond engagement ring when I proposed, as have most (if not all) my friends.
from other cultural references, one gets the impression that in the early 20th Century, Americans didn't give engagement rings, only wedding rings, i.e. the man give his wife one, but he himself doesn't wear a ring.
sheesh, if it really is limited to only the US, I kinda feel like a putz for shelling out for a Lazare.
(seriously though, I am glad I did, she really loved it and was very happy to receive it; I think most women do have an expectation now in receiving a nice engagement ring when their men propose. happy to oblige.)
Again, the value of the thing is not the issueTry telling that to a lot of women out there
I never understood why the guy has to spend all that money on a "Symbol" of their love. Example, Have you ever seen a woman go insane when she sees another woman with a bigger ring? Why does it bother them? If I buy a woman a $30,000 ring, does this mean we have more love for each other than other couples do?
Seriously, A TRUE symbol of "Love" would be for her to agree to marry you WITHOUT a ring. If a woman is willing to do this, then you KNOW she loves you.
Anyways, I knew someone who got engaged and his wife went out and bought him a guitar. Cool Deal!