Is it okay for guys to ask for engagement gifts? I don't know how else to word that question. I don't mean it in a "okay...here's your ring. What do I get?" kinda way. The guy shouldn't "expect" it either. I think the guy should get something in return, but he shouldn't ask. In this day and age, women expect to treated equally. I think it's only fair the reverse holds true. For the ladies...Do you feel obliged to get your man something special in return? Or is your "yes" enough?