Dear Abby, Here's my situation: Yesterday, I screwed up the courage to ask a girl I know out on a date. She's really only an acquaintance, not really a friend (she works in a store that I patronize, and we've always had friendly conversations, but nothing too personal). I'm not sure she knows I was ever married, much less divorced. Anywho, after she agreed to go out with me, she gave me her phone number so I could call her and we could set something more concrete up. I gave her a call, and left a message for her yesterday afternoon. To this point I've not heard back from her. Now, I don't know if she's just been busy, or if maybe it's something else: I realized last night, to my horror, that my ex-wife's name still appears with my phone number on Caller ID. Egad, maybe she thinks I'm cheating on someone. (I've since called the phone company, and my ex-wife's name will be gone by Friday) So, do I seek her out immediately (I know she works again today, so I could drop by the store) and risk looking like a stalker (or some extremely needy person) to determine what's going on, or do I wait awhile longer and see if she calls back? I don't want to scare her away, but I'm very attracted to her, and I don't want to lose her, either... Any thoughts? Is there another option I haven't thought of?