JonZ
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I cant believe this guy was walking around with a gun and got off pleading "Self Defense" WTF?!?
I dont think Ive ever mentioned this here before:
I understand how you feel. My (ex)friends sister was killed by a jealous b/f. He got pissed off becuase she had talked to her exs b/fs mother and chased after her. She sped up to get away and lost control and ended up hitting a utility pole.This wasnt the first time hes chased her either.There wasnt enough evidence to press charges (although he was later found guilty in civil trial)and nothign was done about it.
This girl was just beautiful and she was a great person and didnt deserve this. To tell you I had a hard time with this would be a drastic understatement. I always liked her but had a rule not to date your friends sister - its bad for business. But we were attracted to each other - about a month before she died, we had agreed to go see Beavis and Butthead together (we both loved the show)and that was the last time I saw her. I had alot of guilt and regret and it too me a long time to accept what happened.I had stomach aches and cramps, my temper went through the roof,I couldnt concentrate,severe insomnia,cried all the time,headaches,chest pains, I punched walls, I dragged someone out of their car for cutting me off. I was really out of control.The thought of this guy walking away was unacceptable,unbearable and unthinkable. It haunted me constantly, and I struggled daily with a uncontrollable hatred.
I felt like Ahab, obsessed with getting the person who had killed her, hurt me and my friends family (who still havent recovered from the loss 5 years later and continue to self destruct).I got a gun from a Vietnam vet and was planning on putting a few bullets in his spine(Dont worry I eventually buried the gun).
He moved out of state after running into my brother one day, but recently moved back. While Im not consumed with the thought of killing (or crippling him)anymore, but I cant say what I would do if I saw him. Id proablly break his neck.
Hopefully these people will eventually get what they deserve.
I'm very affectionate with my friends.I learned alot from this. I constantly tell the people I care about I love them becuase you just never know...
My condolences for the loss of your friend.
Since this a Home Theater Forum Ill end this with a great movie quote "He's not really dead you know, as long as we remember him"
I dont think Ive ever mentioned this here before:
I understand how you feel. My (ex)friends sister was killed by a jealous b/f. He got pissed off becuase she had talked to her exs b/fs mother and chased after her. She sped up to get away and lost control and ended up hitting a utility pole.This wasnt the first time hes chased her either.There wasnt enough evidence to press charges (although he was later found guilty in civil trial)and nothign was done about it.
This girl was just beautiful and she was a great person and didnt deserve this. To tell you I had a hard time with this would be a drastic understatement. I always liked her but had a rule not to date your friends sister - its bad for business. But we were attracted to each other - about a month before she died, we had agreed to go see Beavis and Butthead together (we both loved the show)and that was the last time I saw her. I had alot of guilt and regret and it too me a long time to accept what happened.I had stomach aches and cramps, my temper went through the roof,I couldnt concentrate,severe insomnia,cried all the time,headaches,chest pains, I punched walls, I dragged someone out of their car for cutting me off. I was really out of control.The thought of this guy walking away was unacceptable,unbearable and unthinkable. It haunted me constantly, and I struggled daily with a uncontrollable hatred.
I felt like Ahab, obsessed with getting the person who had killed her, hurt me and my friends family (who still havent recovered from the loss 5 years later and continue to self destruct).I got a gun from a Vietnam vet and was planning on putting a few bullets in his spine(Dont worry I eventually buried the gun).
He moved out of state after running into my brother one day, but recently moved back. While Im not consumed with the thought of killing (or crippling him)anymore, but I cant say what I would do if I saw him. Id proablly break his neck.
Hopefully these people will eventually get what they deserve.
I'm very affectionate with my friends.I learned alot from this. I constantly tell the people I care about I love them becuase you just never know...
My condolences for the loss of your friend.
Since this a Home Theater Forum Ill end this with a great movie quote "He's not really dead you know, as long as we remember him"