Friday, my father is coming in from Mississippi for my nephew's graduation. I haven't seen this man in 21 years and outside of a few phone calls have not spoken too much with him over the years. I am travelling up to Santa Clarita(not too far) to stay the weekend with my sister's family. Although, there is no real bad-blood per se(typical divorce while I was a teen), I'm nervous as all hell to meet the man again. I mean I'm older now than he was when he left. Has anyone met a family member after an extended period of time? and how did you handle it?