Dean DeMass
Screenwriter
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IMHO, there is nothing wrong with checking out other women. My wife knows I do it, but it doesn't bother her. Why? Because she knows I am a perv, and that she is the only one for me.
I like looking at women because they are beautiful creatures, and some are just too damn hot not to look at. Now, I don't condone cheating in a marriage, it is just plain wrong. We know a few people that are swingers and that is fine, because both people in the relationship condone it, but that is not for us. Just the thought makes us angry and jealous. If you love your wife like you say you do, I don't think you have a problem. A little bit of fantasy never hurt anyone. But you have to keep it at just that, "a fantasy". Instead of picking up a couple of new DVDs this week, why not buy your wife a small gift and some roses, and surprise her by cooking a nice meal. It is amazing what little things like that do to make your spouse feel loved.
To end this post on a comical note...... if worst comes to worst, just go "pound one out".
Disclaimer: That last comment was not made to offend anyone, just trying to put a smile on some faces.
-Dean-
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I like looking at women because they are beautiful creatures, and some are just too damn hot not to look at. Now, I don't condone cheating in a marriage, it is just plain wrong. We know a few people that are swingers and that is fine, because both people in the relationship condone it, but that is not for us. Just the thought makes us angry and jealous. If you love your wife like you say you do, I don't think you have a problem. A little bit of fantasy never hurt anyone. But you have to keep it at just that, "a fantasy". Instead of picking up a couple of new DVDs this week, why not buy your wife a small gift and some roses, and surprise her by cooking a nice meal. It is amazing what little things like that do to make your spouse feel loved.
To end this post on a comical note...... if worst comes to worst, just go "pound one out".
Disclaimer: That last comment was not made to offend anyone, just trying to put a smile on some faces.
-Dean-
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My HT Equipment
"I've seen you and you are not cool."