It doesn't matter if you've been married just a few years or for 50yrs, I know that our mind think about other women occasionally. How do you deal with it? I saw a girl whom I had a crush on as a teen over a decade ago. She's just as great as I remember her. She is in fact married now and with a kid. Since the encounter, I can't stop thinking about her. I bought her a gift when I saw her and one for her son too and told her that I always had a crush on her. Now, this might sound strange but our family and hers have always been like family to each other so even if I gave her a kiss, it wouldn't seem weird. Well, I love my wife and wouldn't trade her for anyone else. I don't plan on having an affair of course with this girl or anyone else I might encounter throughout my marriage. She's not happily married but it doesn't matter either way. I don't know how to deal with this superficial feelings. I know we all go through this, even the married women. I want to express the feelings in some way like treat her like a sister and get her gifts occasionally. I'm honestly not sure for this is new to me since I got married. I don't think she knows how I feel and I don't honestly know how she feels. Again, it probably doesn't matter. I like her to think of me but what's the point right? Anyway, how do you guys or gals deal with infatuation like this. I assume this is all that is since I dearly love my wife. Right now, all I'm trying to do is just let time kill this feeling.