You guys helped me tremendously with my neighbor nightmare so I'm going back to the well again. Here's the brief story. When my father died in March of 2001, this friend of 20 years was a total no-show. No condolence call to my mother or me, no phone call, not even a lousy card. I hung out with him twice last fall for Monday night football at a local bar, but didn't have a good time. I am not, and never have been mad at him for this, exactly...I just don't want or need a friend like this in my life. When I bought my home, I figured he'd be gone, but somehow he got my new phone number and called. After not returning calls, he got my home address and started dropping by. After the second unexpected visit two weeks ago, I flat out told him that our friendship was done and that he wasn't welcome in my home. How much more direct can I be? And yet, just today he dropped by again. What can I say to get rid of this guy?