Todd Christ
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so what do you guys (with kids) do with the kids? what about living arrangements, healthcare, etc? does the ex make his/her own living?
I love Sandra, but I'm 13 years older than her, I don't think this relationship will last, sadly.
Steve, with all due respect, that's rubbish, my friend. Age is irrelevant. If you guys love each other, have things in common and are on the same wavelength, that's all that matters. Of course, I say that not knowing if age is your only reason for concern.
...get out there and enjoy life itself. Do the things you like to do...
This is key.
If you do end up separating, get out there and do something you've always wanted to do but, for whatever reason, never would have done while you were together.
For me, it was (after 15 years of procrastination) buying a guitar and starting lessons. Helped immensely.
And don't try to ever change yourself to fit someone else's idea of who you should be. Compromise is one thing, but don't lose youself completely in another person.
"This above all else: To thine own self be true."
so what do you guys (with kids) do with the kids? what about living arrangements, healthcare, etc? does the ex make his/her own living?
Well in my case she wants to split 50/50, and not divorce but live in separate dwellings, I only work very part time, Before this revelation we decided I would stay home with the baby while she pursued her career in healthcare. I am supposed to start school at the end of Feb., this would involve moving to Helena, and she would have to transfer. So it seems my world will be turned upside down. But she still wants to see each other. Maybe she is just having a particularly hard PMS. Either that or she's gone nuts!
and not divorce but live in separate dwellings,
This is not good. If you are going to divorce, then please do so. You don't want to be doing this a few years down the road when you want to marry the right women - which at this point might be hard to imagine, I know.
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Holadem