If your litmus test is whether an accusation goes to trial before deciding if someone has committed harassment then roughly zero percent of those guilty of harassment will ever be dealt with. They know this and count on it, and as we have seen abusers and harassers cover for each other to ensure that it never gets that far. It's too easy to make the victims just give up.
What you CAN do is be an advocate for victims. Trust that the vast majority of them are not making stuff up or have an axe to grind. And when multiple victims tell you that someone is a scum you should believe them more, not less.
Look, I get it, men think that there's so much going on here that a few of these women must be lying, right? If you give in to these thoughts you are part of the problem.
What you CAN do is be an advocate for victims. Trust that the vast majority of them are not making stuff up or have an axe to grind. And when multiple victims tell you that someone is a scum you should believe them more, not less.
Look, I get it, men think that there's so much going on here that a few of these women must be lying, right? If you give in to these thoughts you are part of the problem.