Sam, It sounds like you expect me to be disappointed.
I'd never set anyone up for preconceived notions like that. If this is interesting to you go nuts with it and don't listen to what anyone has to say about it other than yourself, especially someone like me. I'm -surprised- you are interested in it as a non gamer, but NOT surprised because you love gadgets and being an early adopter.
What I'm saying is is that I can't personally recommend anyone BUT early adopters jump in at this point. The tech is fun but finicky. I think the PSVR the perfect choice of the 3 for you, and think you will have many great impressions. Enjoy it!