If you knew someone was spreading rumors and lies about you and other people, as well as talking bad about other folks behind their back, but the way you found out wasn't exactly ethical what would you do? This is not a legal issue, but more a moral issue. We have mutual friends involved and this will easily turn ugly. Do I confront the person in private explaining that I have proof they are lying and defaming mine and other people's reputation, and that if they don't cease I will go public with it? (wow, after typing, it sounds bad) Or do I just turn the other cheek and keep it all to myself, yet stewing in my own juices. Going public would feel oh so good, but it may hurt me as much as the lies the person is telling. I'm open to suggestions for ideas to resolve the situation.