MikeFR
Supporting Actor
- Joined
- May 16, 2002
- Messages
- 595
Unless you really need to do the traditional thing, wouldnt you both be better off in the long run if you put the 'ring money' towards your student loans or even towards a home?
I know one couple in particular who did the ring thing and are paying for insurance on it, but get this, they cant afford insurance on their apartment! Makes no sense.
It just seems silly to me when people spend thousands of dollars on a ring and then are miserable when they get married because they are in debt and can never get ahead or are stuck in a crappy apartment. I understand the desire to be romantic, do the traditional thing and to a certain extent prove your love/commitment, but if your girl isnt the type of person that requires that, why not do something practical and make a real investment in your future?