gregstaten
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- Aug 1, 1997
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Since I got home from work at about 7pm I've been listening to my next door neighbor's beagle howl. He hasn't stopped and they haven't lifted a finger to stop him. This has been going on since about three months after they got him - or nearly a year. They got him, they say, because their 7-year old girl wanted a dog. Of course, he was too much for her to handle and sadly they now they basically ignore him. He spends most evenings tied out on a short leash on their concrete driveway. The poor dog doesn't even get to be in the grass!
I love dogs and he's a nice, though completely undisciplined, dog. At least they aren't letting him run wild anymore. Before they leashed him they used to just let him out. He'd run over to the fence around my yard and bark at my dogs. (I fenced in the meadow in my backyard when I bought the house so my dogs would have a safe place to be in and so they wouldn't annoy the neighbors.)
Then there's the dead electric stove that has sat on at the edge of their grass (by the road) for about four months ago. I've checked and the town doesn't take them away unless you pay $20. Obviously he hasn't done that. Then there's the dead car that has sat out for about five months with a spray-painted "$350 or best offer" sign on it. And we live on a cul-de-sac in a very rural neighborhood. Other than the mailman and our own friends, virtually no one drives by.
I try to be a nice neighbor and have suggested ways to get rid of the car (charity, donating to a high school shop class, etc). No, he's convinced that some random lost person will see his sign on the piece of junk and buy it off of him. Same for the broken electric stove. He figures that either the garbage men will eventually take it (out of pity?) or someone will drive by and take it away for him.
So my question is, when is too much *too* much? When do you crack and stop being the nice neighbor and, for example, call the SPCA or the cops. Become a jerk over him trashing up the street, etc? I like where I live and I don't want to develop an adversarial relationship with my next door neighbor, but...damn!
Has anyone had a similar situation? How did you deal with it?
-greg
I love dogs and he's a nice, though completely undisciplined, dog. At least they aren't letting him run wild anymore. Before they leashed him they used to just let him out. He'd run over to the fence around my yard and bark at my dogs. (I fenced in the meadow in my backyard when I bought the house so my dogs would have a safe place to be in and so they wouldn't annoy the neighbors.)
Then there's the dead electric stove that has sat on at the edge of their grass (by the road) for about four months ago. I've checked and the town doesn't take them away unless you pay $20. Obviously he hasn't done that. Then there's the dead car that has sat out for about five months with a spray-painted "$350 or best offer" sign on it. And we live on a cul-de-sac in a very rural neighborhood. Other than the mailman and our own friends, virtually no one drives by.
I try to be a nice neighbor and have suggested ways to get rid of the car (charity, donating to a high school shop class, etc). No, he's convinced that some random lost person will see his sign on the piece of junk and buy it off of him. Same for the broken electric stove. He figures that either the garbage men will eventually take it (out of pity?) or someone will drive by and take it away for him.
So my question is, when is too much *too* much? When do you crack and stop being the nice neighbor and, for example, call the SPCA or the cops. Become a jerk over him trashing up the street, etc? I like where I live and I don't want to develop an adversarial relationship with my next door neighbor, but...damn!
Has anyone had a similar situation? How did you deal with it?
-greg