well guys/girls, not too sure how to start off, so I'll start from the beginning. I had a female friend, we'll call her Mell. I was friends with Mell, and she had feelings for me, I however did not have those kind of feelings. We hung out a few times, and she actually thought we were seeing each other, but when I found that out I told her I couldn't do that, for various reasons. She just isn't my type. So a few weeks later, her parents offer me a job with their company, landscaping, so I take it and all is well for the first few weeks. Then Mell starts working with me, as the foreman, and all hell breaks loose. She turns into a total hoe, bossing me around, or just not even talking to me at all. Communication in a job is important to me, so that got me a little mad. After a few weeks of her piss poor attitude and lack of communication skills, I contacted her via her cell phone and left a message saying that I was not going to work for their company anymore. It was short, but to the point and was done in a professional manner. She absolutely freaked over this! That same night she sent me e-mails telling me NEVER to walk into a Blockbuster video again (she also manages a local blockbuster), and to find a new baseball team. She plays on the same team, but is in no way in charge of the team in any way. I've gone into blockbuster since this, and was told by another manager that I wasn't allowed in because Mell went to the head manager and complained about me and had me banned. This lady knows me, and apologized for what Mell has done, she even knows what Mell is doing is BS. I left with no problems, and still rented a DVD. This was 2 weeks ago, and I just got back from a week and a half long business trip. Last night I had a baseball game, so I went to the game, but Mell wasn't there. The coach pulls me aside and starts to tell me that Mell has informed him that there is a restraining order against me stating I can't be within 100 yards of her, I told him that was total BS and that she just wants me off the team. So that's the story in a nutshell. Mell seems to be VERY bitter that I wouldn't go out with her and stopped working for their company. I have been nothing but professional about the whole thing. The only time I have contacted her was to quit my job. Yet she seems to think I won't leave her alone and a restraining order of some kind is needed. Guys, I need advice on what the hell to do here, I'm REALLY pissed off now, as I LOVE baseball and DO NOT want to get kicked off the team because of her BS. With blockbuster, is there a way I could contact head office and complain about her, as there are no grounds for her claims against me? I just don't know what to do. She's threatening to get the cops involved to, but what for? I don't talk to her, nor do I ever see her, UGHHH. This is stressing me out to no end, help me out here!