John Thomas
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To quote a favorite song of mine, "We care alot".
It's a dirty job but someone's gotta do it.
It's a dirty job but someone's gotta do it.
I'm not a writer, or an english teacher and this is not speech writing 101, it's a message board.
There's no lack of respect for other members because you have a spelling error in a post.There's a big difference between saying "He misspelled 'a lot' and used 'their' instead of 'there'. He's evil and must be ignored!" and "He wrote "IM SORY I CUD NOT TAEK IT ANY MORE!!!1!1! OMG I SE IT AVARYDAY AND IT IS DRIVNG ME MAD1!!!111! OMG WTF LOL TEH PROPER PHRAES IS A LOT!!!1!1 OMG AN EXMPLA IN A S3NT3NCE WUD B" (from Jason H's example). What is he smoking?"
Of course, everyone is going to overlook your average spelling and grammar mistake. That's a fact of life on a message board. I, myself, have only your average grasp of grammar. But when you are misspelling multiple words in poorly constructed sentences, people *will* think you are either a) a teenager or b) have the mentality of one. (No offense intended to teenage forum members who can spell and use proper grammar). This is the only point we, so-called 'Grammar Nazis', are trying to make.
I find that poor grammar both when written and spoken significantly lowers my impression of that person and frankly it disturbs me how lax English is becoming these daysHaving reread what I previously wrote it does seem rather harsh. For me the types of poor grammar and spelling that bug me are those that really blatant and it’s obvious the person isn't speaking the same language I am I've not seen any post in this thread that suggests anyone here is uneducated...quite the contrary actually. To that end though I'm likely the worst speller here so I tend to over look spelling mistakes. The other consideration we have to make on boards like this is that English isn't everyone's native language.
Regarding the subject of people judging other that speak poorly ask yourself if you would take a "valley" girl seriously no matter what her topic was if she continued to talk in "valleyspeak". How about the portrayal of southern US people being slow with they're drawl? It’s a fact we judge other people on our perceptions that include how well they communicate even though it’s unfair and frequently unjust.
Regarding the subject of people judging other that speak poorly ask yourself if you would take a "valley" girl seriously no matter what her topic was if she continued to talk in "valleyspeak".There is 'valley-speak' and 'ghetto-talk' but that is far, far worse than bad spelling, poor puncuations, and double negatives.