Paul_Scott
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My grandmother passed away a few days ago and I think I'll be the one giving the eulogy at the service. I've been half planning and half dreading it for years now, but now that its actually upon me, I'm in a slightly controlled panic and hope to solicit some advice from the fine folks here.
I want to try to keep it brief (before I crack up)
and I think/feel that it should be somewhat personal, yet my aunt is piqued and dreading that I will get long winded and editorialize too much (and anyone who knows my posts in the film forums should be able symapathize with her concern).
But at the same time, I'm looking over their first draft and all I see are bland, greeting card sentiments...I know they're heartfelt but they also seem so generic- and that to me would be the biggest sin in this situation.
well, that's my dilemna.
I'm going to try do do some searches for eulogies tonight and see if that will help- but a bigger help would be to hear from people who've done it themselves. I would greatly appreciate somebodys wise counsel right about now.
thanks
I want to try to keep it brief (before I crack up)
and I think/feel that it should be somewhat personal, yet my aunt is piqued and dreading that I will get long winded and editorialize too much (and anyone who knows my posts in the film forums should be able symapathize with her concern).
But at the same time, I'm looking over their first draft and all I see are bland, greeting card sentiments...I know they're heartfelt but they also seem so generic- and that to me would be the biggest sin in this situation.
well, that's my dilemna.
I'm going to try do do some searches for eulogies tonight and see if that will help- but a bigger help would be to hear from people who've done it themselves. I would greatly appreciate somebodys wise counsel right about now.
thanks