Scott_J
Senior HTF Member
I don't know what to do. I've met her a couple times. We don't really know each other that well, but I'm attracted to her and would like to get to know her better, possibly leading to a relationship. The thing is, as I said, she's my friend's twin sister. I'm good friends with him and have been since September when we met (we're suitemates). I don't want to ruin my friendship with him. I've never been in this type of situation before and don't how to approach it. It doesn't help that I'm not good with asking girls out to begin with. Should I just approach her directly first? Should I first talk to my friend about it and not necessarily ask his permission, but ask if he would mind if I asked her out (he is kind of "protective" - for lack of a better term - of his sister) and maybe ask him to put in a good word for me, so to speak, since I don't know her very well. Or should I just forget about it altogether and not risk our friendship at all? I don't even know if it would put our friendship at risk or not.
If I do decide to "act on this feeling," I have to do it soon because she's graduating in May and most likely moving back home to Long Island afterward.
Any advice would be most helpful and appreciated. Thanks.
If I do decide to "act on this feeling," I have to do it soon because she's graduating in May and most likely moving back home to Long Island afterward.
Any advice would be most helpful and appreciated. Thanks.