RogerB
Second Unit
- Joined
- Oct 8, 2001
- Messages
- 401
Doh!
DELETED. Don't want anyone I know reading this since I am using my real name.
I didn't see what you originally posted, David, and my comment isn't aimed at you, it's just a general one - that the management of the HTF does a great service to its readers by enforcing the rule of 'real names' - you ARE responsible for what you post. I like this a lot.
The internet would be a better place if people thought of the consequences before they posted stuff - as you just did, David, and I'm impressed you had the judgement to do so.
Result: I get women I never would've dreamed of before.
Yes, that's true - you do. Let's face the facts, here: Men who treat women poorly are often surrounded by beautiful women. Now, do you want to know why? Well, I'll tell you why!
These women are not stupid, as the quote above claims. Women who stay in abusive relationships, or are just plain attracted to jerks, are that way for a reason. Most of them have been mentally abused all their lives, especially as children. Many have been physically abused. Many, sexually. Others grew up without a father. Contrary to the feminist way of thinking, children need fathers, especially little girls. Those that grow up without a proper father figure in their lives have extreme difficulty in relationships. All have scars they will carry to their grave.
By treating women poorly, not only are you attracting unstable, self conscious, abused women with a low self esteem, you are doing further damage to them. Mental damage is worse than physical damage, and every time you treat a woman like dirt, you're putting one more nail in the coffin that is her soul. Is that what you want? To perpetuate such a horrible cycle upon the women of this earth? The women who, by all accounts, are a superior species? (Sorry guys, but no man can hold a candle to the women I know - they are amazing creatures)
I've got one for you: Stick to being one of the good guys. Because, eventually, most abused women see the light. Eventually, they are able to overcome what they have been through, but they often need help to do so. Do you want to help, or do you want to harm? It's true, these women will shy away from you if you're a nice guy. They don't know how to be with a nice guy. They don't think they deserve any sort of special attention. So they shy away until their self esteem improves.
I think it's horrible - human beings, especially women, hating themselves so much that they honestly feel they are not WORTHY of having a door opened for them. Not WORTHY of a return phone call. Not WORTHY of being loved.
So, which life to you want to live in?
What kind of a person do you want to be?
How would you like to be treated if you were in that situation?
Think about it.