I'm too much of a newbie to be able to post URL's...but search at Youtube for "Monkey Balls". It's a little perverted, but in a silly harmless way. I swear if I'm ever in a bad mood that can make me smile instantly!
There's this book for chicks called "He's Just Not That Into You" which actually has a pretty good overall message. Bottom line the message is this (aimed at girls but works for guys too)...you are an amazing person who deserves a partner that gives you the same love and attention you give them...
I think that it's a pretty popular movie that people find really funny. So when they see buttons, they think "flair". I agree people are just making conversation. Tell them "At least I'm not making my "O" face".