Story about a girl(personal experience) (1 Viewer)

Hi guys,how's it going?

Here's my story,2 months ago i see that nice girl in my philosophy class and from what i've noticed,it looks like she's interested in me...
But here's the thing,that girl doesn't talk to anyone in class(neither boys neither girls).But here's what she does to me,she knows that i'm here,so she looks in my direction but not at me.So you get the point,she doesn't wanna show that she's interested in me...hate that...

I feel like everytime when we finish the class,she takes her time so that she could follow me until we get out of the building.

I would like to talk to her but first i can't find a good opportunity,and second she never looks at me in the eyes and that doesn't give me confidence at all.

Last time i was very close to her(like 1 meter away) because i was waiting for my friend and she was right next to me,so i looked at her in the eyes,she knew that i was looking but didn't want to look at me...It really bothers me.

What do you guys think i should do?
Should i talk to her next course?What if she doesn't want to answer?


Thanks a lot for the advice!

Lates!

Antonio

Ask her out. She's probably shy, and isn't comfortably making eye contact.

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Visibly interested AND shy... You're not often gonna have it this easy.


Excuses... You seem to be looking for some sort of approval before even talking to her. It doesn't work that way. You suspect she likes you, which is more than most guys could say when they walk to a woman. Yet they do it anyway.

Take deep breath next time, and say "Hi". She is as terrified as you are, I promise you.

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Youth is wasted on the young...

Since its philosophy class, ask her if she'd like to come over to your room to Plato with your Bacon... If she says she Kant, you know she has a Locke on her chastity belt and you're going to get Neitzsche...

In the alternative, you could just tell her your name is Schrodinger and and you like to do mindblowing things with pussies and boxes...

Next class, sit right next to her and start a conversation.

Ricardo has a point... Why ask this here??? You should probably just go up to her... Look at it this way... It wont kill you... If your right, your right... If your wrong, your wrong... It wont exactly ruin your life...

Erik???

Youth is wasted on the young??? What are you compaining about??? Your only 34... I wouldnt consider that ancient... lol...

Whatever you do DO NOT ask her out first up. Ask her if she did her homework, blah blah.. something about the class you both have something in common in. Then from there it's up to your personality & confidence to get a date.

Don't get your hopes up 100% despite what all these guys say. You have to find out if she's really interested in you by talking to her first. If she doesn't talk back imagine how it's gonna be when you go on a date.

edit- chris has some great points. if she's super shy and retracts when you show you're attracted to her ask for her email/AIM for class puporses. When you're in a virtual setting online with her you'll notice she'll open up much more.

Don't forget to mention Silica... Works every time!

Jay

Sup,

Thanks a lot guys for the input,i'm having a class on friday so i'll probably see her there.
I'm gonna try my best to talk to her(probably like at the end of the class) but i won't ask her out,like Chris and Scott said,i don't think it's a good idea to ask her out on the first time,it's more likely that she's gonna say no because she's shy,so it doesn't help.

BTW,i'm shy too...gonna be hard lol


I'll give you more info during the week-end...

P.S:Why i came here to take your opinion about it is because you have more experience than i do.

Take care!

Antonio

Very clever and funny.

You forgot the other part Vlad..



Brilliant.

I gotta agree with this. If she is shy, she may reject you just out of fear (by you blind-siding her).

Definitely make it sound friendly so you can get to know her. If she's interested, you'll know it. Making it friendly makes it easier on yourself if she rejects you.

You sound a lot like me. My ex always told me how guys used to ask her out at the end of the year and she never understood it. I told her that's because it was easier for them if you rejected them (i.e. They would feel awkward the next time they saw you in class).

Making friends with this girl at first is the safe way to do things if you are shy and she is too.

Good Luck!

Schrodinger's Cat.

I was laughing so much after reading the first part that I totally skipped over the second.

Excellent.