Derek Miner
Screenwriter
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Wowsers... the crowd gets tougher and tougher. Can I just say that I don't hate that I'm defending this show? The middle of this season, yes, had some questionable moments, but these last two episodes have been extremely solid and I'm just as much on board as I have been in previous years. These are the kinds of episodes that make me forget the dreadful season finale from last year. Having just come from Hulu to watch this week's show, I am reminded by the comments there that the intimate family conflicts that are the bread and butter of this show elicit a wide variety of opinions. As I believe I said at some point in one of the "Parenthood" threads, the fact that we see the characters "warts and all" is something that I appreciate and think that the writers generally handle well. People on this show do stupid things, act petty, have problems, etc. For some people, these kinds of things elicit "I hate CHARACTER X!!" responses, but in real life, it's not so easy to write people off. And for me, the same goes for (mostly) well-written characters. For some of the others who regularly visit this thread, it feels like a romance has faded and things like clipping toenails in bed or leaving dishes in the sink have just become too irritating to overlook.
Mike, I gotta know, how do you watch anything on television? I mean, I work for a network and I have a part time job dealing with surveys about TV episodes and – outside of shows like "Toddlers & Tiaras" that invite us to be entertained by people who probably need social intervention – I think the only show that got me this frustrated was "No Ordinary Family."Mike Frezon said:And then there is the storyline broached in the preview of next week's episode. I won't talk about it here. I will just give an eyeroll -- -- and say that this is a worn, old storyline that will yield predictable results. I have come to expect nothing more from this series.
I was writing something that disagreed with your premise more directly, but then I realized your "responsible teens don't have issues" comment referred back to how it appeared the show was being forward thinking because it appeared Drew and Amy would be allowed their tryst without judgement because they handled it responsibly. So I can see your disappointment in seeing that's not what they went for at all. Still, I think you're being a bit hard on the direction they went. I think the different results you mention all could fall into the "paint by numbers" trap. I've seen comments that praise the show for presenting the male point of view because it is often overlooked. That reading rings a bit true to me. As a huge Ben Folds fan, the comparison to the song "Brick" gets my attention, but it's not like Ben was the first guy to have that experience. The beauty of the song comes from the details of the story and the artful portrayal of the emotions that make us feel the situation even if we have never been in a similar one. While not quite as transcendent, I happen to think the writers of "Parenthood" accomplished something similar, using their own particular artistic gifts.mattCR said:I have no idea what to make of it, but here's where this show is a mess on this point: If you favor birth control for teens, then this is basically says in a 1 for 1 case of the best possible controlled situation (birth control provided, instructed, etc.) the results are=it doesn't matter. If you are against birth control, the show doesn't solve your issue because as others point out, they slink off to the abortion clinic. Now, I get that this happens.. but like I said, I can listen to Ben Folds Five "Brick" and have a 100% idea of where this is going.. "on a very special episode' coming up, the girl is going to be depressed and conflicted because she has no one to talk to about this, because she locked everyone out. On the other hand, you're going to have a kid who blabs to his mother out of need. And then you're going to have the shocking and heartfelt reveal to her parents at which point they hate Drew. I would have been better with a ton of different results (parents take her to the clinic, girl doesn't get pregnant because birth control works, whatever). This all seemed way too cliche. The cliche answer is "kids get teen pregnant" This is the second one of these storylines on this show. I had hoped we were building toward something different in "responsible teens don't have issues".
This comment made me think about some of the disagreements people have had about the way storylines have played out on the show. Some of the things that I read as character flaws being explored are read by others to be flawed writing. Julia's storyline with Victor certainly is dense and complicated as well as mostly an internal struggle for the character. I recall people wondering how Julia could devote so much time to Victor and maintain her career. But eventually, the show revealed that she couldn't. I think the amount of dissonance (for lack of a better word) between everyone in that household turns people off to the storyline. But even when Julia is being a control freak, Sydney is acting spoiled and Victor is acting out intensely, I appreciate the show for presenting this dynamic. I don't find Julia has taken any "weird" turns for no reason. It seems to me a very strong crisis in her life where she has lost the motivation to carry through with something she at one time wanted due to some extreme circumstances. As a post script, let me point out that the original movie "Parenthood" was on cable earlier in the week and I watched a chunk of it for the first time in probably 15 years. Despite having some great performances and a handful of really solid, realistic moments, the movie is consistently undercut by the obvious set-ups for jokes or broad moments inserted into scenes that shift the tone greatly. Take a look sometime and tell me that even the weaker moments of this series don't improve upon the source material.mattCR said:Oh, I have no problem with telling the story of not-so-great parents (thus I love Shameless). But the thing with Julia this week struck me as just crazy. This isn't a kid they've had for a few weeks now. It's been part of the summer and deep into the school year, we're talking months at this point. And over the last few weeks they had built this with her working on bribing him, getting his grades better in school.. during summer they worked with him through baseball and whatever.. having him unhappy is one thing, but Julia's reaction came across to me as maybe turning the character into one of those that I despise not because she's a character who serves a purpose as a bad guy, but because she's a character that just makes weird turns and at times is setup to frustrate the audience with moments like that.