Elizabeth S
Senior HTF Member
i'm probably sounding like a male-pig, but i gott admit that's kinda surprising to hear .. coming from a gal. heck, even i think if my gf cheated on me, i'd ace it. but who knows ... i guess that's a true test of love.Honestly, I think the things that I consider a sign of true love may be seen by others as desperation and a lack of self-respect. When I analyze it in my mind, however, I see acceptance and forgiveness as a major component of love. So, yes, I have put up with many things that others probably wouldn't abide. But that's my nature -- love means a lot of self-sacrifice -- I would have given my life for the man I loved, surely I could accept a fling. I've had meaningless flings myself, so I realize it truly doesn't always mean much.
That being said, most of my relationships were not "typical" situations, so my views are probably different.